You have only two jobs to do in order to become a secure, stable person who can function independently in the adult world. (Everything else is commentary.)
Love Yourself: Your first task is to learn to understand, accept, and value yourself for who you are—what you can change and what you can’t, what you want to be and what you don’t.
Protect Yourself: Your next task is to develop the knowledge, skills, and motivation to take good care of your health, your safety, and your future.
Your job is to become the kind of person who can make good choices for your own good reasons (not just because someone else says so, but because you know it’s what you need to do).